I appreciate all the positive responses I received on
facebook and email, they really have been uplifting to keep me going, but I can’t
help but wondering if it is just people being nice. I guess the problem is I’m so used to getting
yelled at during sports that I don’t know what to do with positive
reinforcement and I start wondering. Am
I the kid that keeps playing because everyone is afraid to tell him he isn’t
any good (back to sports analogies).
Finally I decided a good writer has to have the mentality of
a defensive back, if you get beat on one play it doesn’t matter you just have
to go out and play the next one (ok I promise I am done with the sports
references).
So where did I leave off?
We came back from Peru, and I had formed some amazing new
relationships. I was in a men’s bible
study, I had a date with a beautiful girl, and my life was looking up.
Hold on let me take a step back a minute, let’s talk about
how Ashley helped Kate and I get together.
On one of the last days in Pucallpa (or maybe in the airport in Lima),
Ashley and I were walking and talking and as Ashley is known to do, she just
made some wise remark about how I seemed to be interested in Kate. I think I tried to be funny and say something
about how did Ashley know I wasn’t interested in her since I had spent about as
much time with her, and she just laughed and told me not to waste my time, she
was too good for me. Then as any
confident man would do, I asked “well do
you think she likes me, I thought maybe she liked Stephen?” Ashley told me that Stephen was too short
for Kate (sorry if your reading this Stephen), and that was all the confidence
I needed to make the next step with Kate.
So if I have never said it Ashley THANKS for the nudge.
So now we are back in the states, and the first night we
were back LTQENUIKP (Los teamos Quatros, es numero uno, Inca Kola, Pantalones),
went out for some Karaoke at Foster’s Lounge, I will post some pictures because
words don’t do it justice, but Kate and I busted out what has become my
favorite Karaoke song,(You’re the reason are kids are ugly by Loretta Lynn and
Conway Twitty). Please click the link to check out how the
song goes, sorry there is no video of us
singing it. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iFq6eZBS1iM
The following night Kate and I went on our first date to
Sailfish Marina, if you want to know why it took till the following night it
was because we both had to end relationships that we were in when we went on
the trip. Now I know what you’re
thinking and shame on you. Nothing
inappropriate happened on the mission trip, and we didn’t even talk about
dating until the plane ride home, however I told Kate if we were going to date
it was going to be exclusive and it wasn’t just going to be this just lets be
friends and see what happens kind of thing.
So we could not start our relationship until we had no other
commitments.
So on our first date we went to Sailfish Marina on Singer
Island and walked down to the Jetty, and got slurpees. You really can’t have a first date without
slurpees, come on guys. It was a great
night and the first of what became many more dates. And on that note I think I am going to go get a slurpee.
so glad we went on that first date - love you!
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