I’m not really sure
where to start, so maybe from the beginning.
Last week I fixed my alarm so it would only vibrate with no noise to
wake me up, which is how my blackberry used to work, however this morning it
didn’t wake me up this morning. Since I
am old and have been waking up at the same time for 10 years I woke up only 10
minutes late(right now I’m thinking this whole blog post is either going to be
10,000 words or just about my day), well let’s find out.
I am going to skip the first story of the day because it
has too much back story, which can be a full blog after the surgery (that’s
right I am going to blog after the surgery).
This morning on the way to work I saw a guy in a wheelchair going down
the side of Australian Blvd. I’m not sure
what came over me but I just knew that he needed help, so I turned the jeep
around and went back to see if there was anything I could do to help. His name was Ray he was missing a foot, he
asked me for a ride to the Bus Depot. So
I pushed him up next to the jeep, with no top mind you, and he climbed up into
it. I threw the wheelchair in the back
seat and we took off for the Bus Depot, it is only a mile or so up the road,
not that big a deal, I dropped him off gave him an apple and some crackers that
I had for lunch while totally forgetting to give him the bottle of water that
had been sitting right in front of him the whole ride (still can’t believe I
didn’t give him that water), anyway on the way to work it really just felt so
pointless what I do for a living. I mean
there is so much need in the world and what am I contributing on a daily basis,
I have found that when you go on the mission trips it really turns down the
volume on everything else in your life, and it has become kind of the same
thing with the kidney donation, other things don’t seem quite as important
(like Blackberry’s not syncing the calendar, or a bill not getting paid on
time)
Matthew 25:40 “The King will reply, ‘Truly I tell you, whatever you did for one of the least of these
brothers and sisters of mine, you did for me.’
Matthew 25:40 “The King will reply, ‘Truly I tell you, whatever you did for one of the least of these
brothers and sisters of mine, you did for me.’
Let’s go back to the road trip before I finish the story of
my day. Kate and I made the last stop in
Chapel Hill to see Ashley who was in the hospital, we knew she wasn’t doing well;
the doctors weren’t exactly sure what was going on, whether it was rejection,
or exactly what the deal was. I don’t
know about you but I have been fortunate and have spent very little time in the
hospital, as a patient or visiting people (I’m not so sure if not visiting
people in the hospital is something to be proud of, I think it just means that
I haven’t been reaching out to enough people).
My family has been fairly healthy, and I am very thankful for that.
To realize how much of her life Ashley has spent in the
hospital is a totally humbling realization, when you visit her there, she just
makes it seem like something that everyone has to do (don’t get me wrong I know
she doesn’t want to be there, but she handles it so much better than I ever
could). When we visited her she had
known she needed a kidney for at least 6 months, she told us that she didn’t
want to tell us over the phone. She had
tried to plan a trip down to see us, but she just wasn’t healthy enough, and
that was when she was going to tell us. We talked about options and what they
meant and what many of them looked like and I knew that it was going to be
me. Kate was willing to do it, but I just
knew with the circumstance that wasn’t going to make sense. We had a nice visit with Ashley some good
Thai Food, and after two days we got in the car to head home.
We honestly didn’t make it past one light before I had to
pull over because Kate was in tears. It
really is a hard thing to drive away from someone you love who you aren’t sure
if you will see again and not be able to do anything about it. I told Kate she could stay and fly back
later, but she didn’t want to do that.
We spent the whole 11 hour drive back to Florida talking about what the
next step would be, we really thought we would be donating a kidney in early
2011 not early 2012. It’s crazy to thing
this is still going on , and it has taken this kind of time, at times it has
been an exciting journey, and at others as frustrating as you can imagine. But I wouldn’t change it, there is a plan and
a purpose, and I look forward to seeing where it leads next.
So back to the rest of our day, I decided to fast for the
day as we were waiting for news from the doctors. It was a long day I had contacted my doctor
at 9:30 and by 3:30 still hadn’t heard anything and UNC was calling me to find
out some news. I called back and got
deflected by a very nice receptionist, she listened to me patiently even though
I knew she really couldn’t do anything, it was appreciated.
This brings us to running out of gas, so when I got home we
were supposed to take a bunch of dry cleaning to get done because we had 3 groupons
that expired today. The dry cleaning place
is close to the lake trail where we like to walk Abby, so we thought we should
take her and go for a walk. Well I
usually can get 300 miles a tank on the new jeep, so we were on our way and the
odometer read 281, but I forgot that last time I filled up I used a card with
that didn’t fill the tank all the way, so at 291 on Palm Beach on Okeechobee
blvd sitting at a light the jeep stalled out.
So it was pushing time, I went to the back and Kate steered, I’m glad
jeeps are light. We made our first right and got to a stop sign where a guy in
a truck offered to push us to the gas station, if by chance you pushed a black
jeep to a gas station, thanks. We passed
some Valet’s who were laughing up a storm, and a couple of cops, who let us go
in front of them at the stop sign, told the guy thanks gassed up and hit the
dry cleaners. I find it humbling on days when I think I am able to help people and then I become one of the "least of these" right before my own eyes, God has a great sense of humor.
Kate’s long story short the dry cleaner would only take one
of the groupons, so we left 37 dollars worth of dry-cleaning and took home 60
dollars more, he said we could only have one per household even though we were
able to buy 2 each, oh well, now we have to try to get a refund. So we are 0 for 2 so far, and we only got to
one task. So now we are off to take Abby
for a walk. We get to the Lake Trail,
and I feel a drop, remember we have no doors or top on the jeep, Kate feels a
drop, it is starting to rain, we decide to skip the walk, but get stuck in
traffic on the royal poinsettia bridge.
We manage to break through traffic as it starts to rain harder, and then
we are stuck again. I make a liberal
left turn into a covered gas station so we can fill the rest of the way up, and
dry off. As we are filling up, there is
a rainbow back towards where we came from, which always reminds me of Genesis
9:12-13 ” And God said, “This is the sign of the covenant I am making between
me and you and every living creature with you, a covenant for all generations
to come: I have set my rainbow in the clouds, and it will be the sign of the
covenant between me and the earth”.
We made it home staying dry, walked Abby behind the house,
were startled by the 8 foot gator in the lake and had a great dinner. Did I mention that the Dr. Called me and said
that none of my Dad’s conditions were hereditary and he was going to send UNC a
letter to OK me to donate. I guess I
didn’t but hopefully tomorrow we should have a better idea of when the surgery
is going to happen. See you tomorrow same
bat time, same bat place.
Jeremy forgot to mention that when we visited Ashley in the hospital I was insisting on her moving in with us... but she would not go for that - something about me making her work too much!
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