Kate and I found out today that the surgery date is most
likely going to be pushed back to Feb. 21st. It is starting to feel like Ground Hog Day the movie, we keep getting told dates and then they keep getting moved back.
This is frustrating for Kate and for many
reasons which you will find out as the story continues. The problem with this is that Kate has a show
on March 2nd that she has to be back to Florida for, and most likely
I won’t be able to leave North Carolina until March 4th. We are currently waiting for the Insurance Company
again! They have to approve me as the donor; legally they have 15 business days
to respond, and they told the coordinator they weren’t in a hurry.
If you could please
lift this up in prayer for us we would really appreciate it so that they make
their decision sooner, it is possible if they make the decision by the 8th
we can still do the surgery on the 14th.
After a long day with some frustrating news Kate and I
decided to ride our bikes up to target to blow off a little steam. You’re wondering what could happen on a 1
mile bike ride to a store that could possibly be interesting?
A)
Bike Crash
B)
Flat Tire
C)
Shoe Lace gets caught in the chain
D)
Weird walking fat guy try to fake punch you on
the sidewalk.
That is correct option D, we were riding up the sidewalk and
this guy is walking towards us, I kind of figured he would get out of the way and
let us go by. He figured he would stare
us down and then throw a fake punch while saying an incoherent word. Not sure how I stayed on the bike while
trying to block it but we just kept on riding, I figured there was nothing good
that could come out of circling back to figure out what that was all
about. The rest of the ride their and
back home was uneventful thankfully.
Back to the story: July/August 2011
Back to the story: July/August 2011
When we left the story I had been cleared again to donate by
a hematologist who determined my low iron level was acceptable and my enlarged
spleen was only misshapen. UNC told us
they would submit me in front of the board at the next available meeting. This was in July/August of 2011. We didn’t hear anything back from the
hospital which wasn’t a large concern because we were hoping to the surgery in
January anyway, but when we finally went to check in we were told the donation
was on hold.
It turns out that Ashley’s insurance was denying her, and
saying they would not pay for her to get a kidney. Even now this makes my blood boil, check that
it makes me twice as mad now as when I first heard this because I understand
more what Ashley has had to go through.
To know you are going to need a kidney, find someone who is willing to
donate and is an actual match, and is actually healthy enough to donate, only
to have an insurance company say they aren’t going to pay for it.
They were basically telling her that her life was not worth
the money they would have to spend, what a terrible thing to say, yet alone to
have to hear. Ashley I am so sorry that
you had to hear that and go through that, and I just want to let you know that
you are worth it.
We spent the next several months in a holding pattern while
Ashley had to hire attorneys so that the insurance company would cover the
transplant. This was a time where we
were praying a lot and we had asked for a lot of prayer from all of you. I just want to take this time to thank you
for all of your prayer because on Dec. 6th, 4 months later as the
case was about to go to trial the insurance company dropped the case, and the
surgery would be covered, it was a very exciting day and this put Kate and I
back on the clock.
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